Friday, July 03, 2009

Challenge: Respond Differently

It's funny how such a simple thing as a tweaked knee can drop a person's productivity down near zero. I injured my knee while training for a race and suddenly along with it I'm sleeping in later, my house is dirtier, and I'm having to eat less (oh the depravity!) since my daily caloric expenditure has slowed to a crawl.

My children and husband have been extremely cooperative fetching things to spare me the stairs, thank goodness. However, I'm frustrated that I can't seem to get anything done, I don't feel productive, and I can't apply for disability payments because I wasn't "working" in the first place. This leaves me all sorts of time on my hands to think of the areas where I feel inadequate, conjure up creative projects to do when I feel better, and to generally feel frustrated and thwarted at what I can't accomplish with an injured knee.

The good news is that you get to reap the benefits of my malaise because while I have been sitting here thinking of things that I can do to entertain myself until I feel better I've decided to host another blog carnival, a Respond Differently Challenge.

There will be a fabulous prize given to the winner. Here's what you have to do: choose an area of your life in which you can respond differently. Maybe a relationship, parenting, interacting with friends, or maybe like me you need an attitude adjustment. Set a daily goal for yourself and keep track of how you respond differently in this situation, with this person, or with yourself and work on your goal for 4 weeks. Then on August 1 post a description of your goal, how you implemented it, and your results on your blog. I will have a post going up that day where you will leave your link in the comment thread and will announce the winner(s) shortly thereafter and mail you your fabulous prize(s).


10 friends stopped by:

todavine said...

I love the idea. Just this past week, I've been trying to adjust my attitude for certain things. Hopefully this will help me do it longer.

Rapunzel said...

Wow, I just wrote an intense post which deals specifically with this issue. I love the challenge, Jen, it came at the perfect time for me. Thank you.

Angela said...

I'm in........I have to think of my topic though- Sorry about the knee....that is bummer

mumple said...

Will it count if I've been already doing that except I don't have a daily journal to reflect it, just my own changed perceptions and ability to let my pet peeves not peeve me so much?

Tristi Pinkston said...

I'm sorry you feel crappy right now, but I have to say, your idea is marvelous. I'm on board!

You may have to drop me a reminder ... :)

Shelly! said...

I'm in. I've spent all weekend thinking about which, of the many things, I'd like to work on first. Baby steps right?

I am about to participate in my first triathlon - thrilling right? Except that I am self-sabotaging struggling with my fast food intake. So I think I'll start with that. I need to understand why I am working my body so hard and then stopping for a "treat" after I take the kids to school. My TRI is 1/2 way through this 4-week enterprise - so it will be good to see if I can respond differently to my urges both before and after the race.

Thanks for the challenge!

Mama Zen said...

I'm in! Now, to think of a goal . . .

Ali Cross said...

Gosh, I'm sorry to hear about your knee Jen!

Very cool idea on your contest. Hmm ... this one will require some thought. Plus, I'm coming in late so I'm sure I can't participate in your actual contest, but I can still let it help me change my life.

Thanks!

Tara said...

aw your poor knee! it is so hard when mom isn't as capable as usual. the whole house seems to fall apart it seems. thank goodness you're doing a little better, I hope your back to normal sooner than later!!

great challenge, too. isn't this something we should all be doing anyway? I actually started working on something like that a couple of weeks ago. it's hard!! no wonder we don't work on things like this more often.

Belladonna said...

Glad to hear your knee is better. Isn't it interesting that out of this painful piece of adversity several lives may be touched in positive ways as your blogging pals rise to the challenge of responding differently? Our best lessons seldom come bearing chocolate and sparkles. I'm so sorry for the accident - particularly since you were committed to MOVING MORE and this trapped you into moving less. Know you are in my thoughts as you continue to heal.

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